On Mother’s Day, my daughter asked me about my feelings regarding motherhood and parenthood. I answered her, but the questions had my mind reflecting on what type of parent I have become. I feel like my parenting style has a clinical term. Still, I have found a better word if it’s not already used: supervised emancipation.

I teach them the things that I feel are necessary to know. Everything I teach them is done at their developmental pace. From chores to finances, the goal is for them to have a general understanding of how things work and why. The basic rules of life with a twist of history added—a splash of science and many extracurriculars. But overall, I try to make sure that my children are informed about their rights as citizens and informing them of being comfortable with expressing their feelings.

I try to make sure my children understand societal rules and how to handle situations on an individual basis. My children know how to adapt, and they also know how not to be prideful. My mission has always been to establish a unique bond with them. I wanted them to tell me about who they were or whom they imagine themselves as when they grow and help them to realize what their true dream or passion may be.

What I can pass along this to the new mommies and daddies: teach them how to live beyond you. Everything that child or children observe you do will impact them. Try to remain aware of that whenever one of life’s side/efx comes along. What we pass on will be reflected for the world to see in one way or another. Let’s make sure that our children are the best version of themselves.