At 41, I found myself unexpectedly pregnant with baby number seven during the pandemic. Though I had planned to travel once my last child turned 18, life had other plans. Navigating pregnancy brain, preeclampsia, and the demands of motherhood while managing virtual school for my kids was overwhelming. Yet, giving birth to a healthy baby boy in February 2021 brought immense joy. Now, as I adjust to life as a new mom again, I reflect on the challenges of a “geriatric pregnancy” and offer advice to other moms in similar situations: embrace the journey, reduce stress, and don’t forget to take care of yourself.

Parenting a 4-year-old is a daily mix of challenges and joys. A’Lia, the youngest of six children, brings out a whirlwind of emotions with her energy and cuteness. Whether she’s trying to mimic her older siblings or throwing a tantrum when things don’t go her way, she keeps her mom on her toes. Despite the challenges, the love and laughter she brings make it all worth it. This post reflects on the ups and downs of raising a spirited toddler and the unique parenting strategies that come with it.