The Unexpected Upside of Divorce: Finding the Happy Side
Divorce doesn’t have to be the end of happiness—it can be the beginning of something new. From rediscovering yourself to finding mental clarity and building healthier relationships, this post explores the unexpected positives of starting over and embracing personal freedom.
3rd Annual Christmas Movie List: The Best Holiday Films to Watch in 2024
Looking for the perfect Christmas movies to watch this holiday season? From heartwarming classics to new 2024 releases, this ultimate guide has it all—complete with synopses, trailers, and streaming platforms. Grab some cocoa, gather your loved ones, and let the festive binge-watching begin!
Embrace Self-Love: Build Confidence, Overcome Criticism, and Thrive
In a world chasing perfection, it’s easy to lose sight of who we truly are. Embracing flaws, practicing self-care, and celebrating small wins help us rediscover self-love. By being kind to ourselves and surrounding ourselves with support, we unlock confidence and fulfillment.
If You Can’t Beat ‘Em, Have ‘Em Join You
This little boy has become my shadow since he came back home from summer break. When I move, he moves. If I want to work, he wants my attention. If I do ANYTHING, he has been right there at my heels. So, I decided to create an impromptu podcast starring the one and only, Sir Isaac.
Second Annual Christmas Movies with Janetta
Hi there!
2022 has been a year for the books, honey! Thank goodness the year is wrapping up (along with the draining of pockets, aka holiday season). Before kicking this year to the curb, look at one or all of these festive holiday movies that will leave you with that warm, gushy feeling of joy. Enjoy!
Deeper Issues
Have you ever dealt with the side effects of dealing with a narcissistic person? If you have, then you know it is a draining experience. It drains you in many ways. But have you ever thought that the person you are dealing with might have a mental disorder that appears to mimic narcissism? Recently, I found that to be true.
Listen to Yourself
Self-doubt has been a constant companion in my life, rooted in childhood experiences where my feelings went unheard. It wasn’t until I began to look inward and reflect on my past that I discovered the source of my doubt: I had learned to ignore my intuition. Through self-discovery, I realized that trusting myself is essential for growth. Life’s challenges are opportunities to strengthen our confidence and patience—no matter how cliché it may sound, we truly can overcome self-doubt.
Money Myth That Hinders
Growing up with the belief that money was something to fear and avoid, I found myself trapped in a cycle of financial insecurity. Rooted in guilt from religious teachings, I struggled with the idea of prosperity. But through self-reflection, I’ve learned that money itself isn’t evil—it’s the fear of it that holds us back. By letting go of the fear and embracing abundance, I’ve opened myself up to the blessings I once thought were unattainable. It’s time to break free from old beliefs and accept the financial growth that is rightfully ours.
The “Come Out Better” Plan
After facing financial setbacks, I learned valuable lessons on rebuilding my credit and stabilizing my finances. Through practical steps like developing a plan, setting up autopay, and prioritizing debt repayment, I managed to get back on my feet. The journey wasn’t easy, but staying calm, making strategic decisions, and applying for a secured credit card helped me regain financial confidence. These tips are part of my personal journey to overcome bad credit, and I hope they inspire others to take control of their financial future, no matter their starting point.
What Are We Doing to Generation Alpha’s Future?
As a member of Generation X, I’ve made a conscious effort to teach my children differently, breaking away from outdated generational beliefs. Now, as we raise Generation Alpha, it’s crucial to reflect on the lessons we wish we had learned earlier and ensure we don’t pass down limiting ideas. Our nation also faces generational issues that hinder growth, and it’s up to us to change that. Voting with common sense, prioritizing true progress, and fostering unity are essential steps toward building a better future for the next generation. We must move beyond political loyalty and focus on what’s truly needed for our nation’s prosperity.
My Woes
September brought overwhelming grief as I remembered the loss of two important mother figures in my life, Ms. Carrie Jacobs and my great-grandmother. Visiting their resting places in search of peace, I struggled with the emptiness of their absence. Yet, through the tears and pain, I began to let go of guilt and embraced the love and lessons they left behind. Their guidance shaped me, and in honoring their memories, I found a sense of peace and healing.
SideEfx of a Concert: Expectations
I recently attended the Atlanta R&B Music Experience, and while I was excited to see some of my favorite artists, the night turned out to be a mix of highs and lows. From sound issues to delays, and even the unexpected absence of Dru Hill, the event was full of surprises. Monica’s performance, though stunning, didn’t start until after midnight, and the long wait left many fans disappointed. As someone who is a fan of each performer, I left feeling that my expectations hadn’t been met, especially after waiting nearly six hours to hear Monica’s angelic voice. Despite the hiccups, I’m still hoping for an apology or explanation for what went wrong that night.
Forgiveness Isn’t Simple
Forgiveness can be a challenging journey, especially when someone repeatedly hurts you. In this post, I explore my personal method of approaching forgiveness through three stages: reflection, decisiveness, and acceptance. It’s essential to fully understand the situation and your role before making a decision about how to move forward. I share how these steps help me avoid rushing into forgiveness and the importance of healing before forgiving. It’s a process that takes time, and it’s okay to seek professional guidance as you navigate through it.
Accidental Kindergartner
On August 5, I found myself at the local school district office, trying to figure out why my five-year-old hadn’t been assigned to a teacher or school despite submitting all the required documents. After a frustrating wait and a few phone calls, I finally got the issue resolved. But the real surprise came on the first day of kindergarten when I arrived at the school only to be told that my daughter wasn’t enrolled. In a bizarre twist, I was mistakenly registered as the kindergartner instead of her! This accidental mix-up had me laughing in disbelief, especially after hours of waiting at the registration office. Read on for the hilarious story of how I ended up being an “accidental kindergartner” for 72 hours!
Family History Mystery Update 1
In my search to uncover my family history, I’ve hit a few roadblocks that have left me with more questions than answers. My aunt Verela, who passed away when I was a child, seems to have vanished from the records, and I can’t find any information about her death. I’ve also been researching my second great-grandmother’s family, particularly her first cousin and the mystery surrounding their names and relationships. I’m uncovering interesting details, but there’s still much to explore. I’m excited to continue this journey and hopefully find more answers along the way.
Love & Marriage: DC “Tanks for Everything”
In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 10, the couples retreat is filled with surprises, from Quick’s confession of past affairs to Monique’s emotional response to Chris’ comparison of her to his ex. While Jamie and Erana navigate their son’s upcoming court date, Ashley celebrates the launch of her book, “Do That Shit,” with a surprise proposal from Quick. Amidst the drama and growth, there’s a sense of celebration and reflection. With the reunion approaching, viewers are left eagerly anticipating what’s next.
Love & Marriage: DC “The Winter Swindler”
In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 9, Winter’s journey takes a tumultuous turn as she attempts to clean up the mess caused by her earlier comments and actions. While Winter tries to mend her relationships with the other women, her apology feels empty and insincere, highlighting the importance of strong communication and self-reflection. The episode underscores how emotional baggage from past relationships can hinder new connections, and Winter’s struggle to heal and communicate effectively is a central theme. The takeaway is clear: working on yourself is essential before trying to build healthy relationships with others.
Love & Marriage: DC “Friends or Foes”
In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1 Episode 8, the drama heats up during CIAA weekend. Quick and Jamie’s playful banter is overshadowed by tension as Monique spills tea on Winter’s struggles. Winter, emotionally drained from her past relationship and current marriage issues, finds solace in Monique’s support. Meanwhile, Erana’s awkward moment with Jamie becomes more complicated as the couple faces uncomfortable truths. An intuitive healer calls out the group’s fakeness, pushing them to be more honest, while Kevin tries to defend his actions, gaining surprising support. As the couples prepare for a detox trip, the drama is far from over.