Why do people start arguments? It’s a curious behavior, especially for someone like me who avoids confrontation and finds it a waste of time. Recently, I listened to a caller on The Bert Show who admitted to starting fights with her husband to avoid going out with him. Her reason? She was ready to act single while still married. This left me baffled and laughing, but it also raised a deeper question about respect and honesty in relationships. If you’re unhappy, end the relationship respectfully—don’t create drama or pretend to be single. Temporary distractions can cost more than they’re worth.

When two friends are in conflict, it can be difficult to know where to stand. In this post, the author shares a personal story about being caught in the middle of a dispute and the importance of staying neutral. The key takeaway: sometimes, the best thing you can do is listen without choosing sides, avoiding unnecessary drama and protecting your own peace.