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My Woes

September brought overwhelming grief as I remembered the loss of two important mother figures in my life, Ms. Carrie Jacobs and my great-grandmother. Visiting their resting places in search of peace, I struggled with the emptiness of their absence. Yet, through the tears and pain, I began to let go of guilt and embraced the love and lessons they left behind. Their guidance shaped me, and in honoring their memories, I found a sense of peace and healing.

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Love & Marriage: DC “No New Friends”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 3, the ongoing tension between Winter and Ashley takes center stage as the ladies try to navigate their strained interactions. After a heated dinner discussion, Erana and Jamie find themselves discussing the delicate issue of infidelity, with Jamie expressing frustration over Erana’s response. Meanwhile, Monique and Chris prepare for their upcoming trip to Africa, while Winter tries to mend her relationship with the group, though Ashley’s cold demeanor complicates things. As the drama continues, it’s clear that unresolved tensions are shaping the dynamics between these women.

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My Superwoman

In this heartfelt tribute, I celebrate the unsung superwomen who play pivotal roles in children’s lives, offering love and care that goes beyond biological ties. My great-grandmother, Ora Bell Kelley, exemplified this selfless love, raising me as her own and sharing her wisdom. Though I later learned she wasn’t my biological mother, our bond remained unshaken. This post honors the women who, like Ora Bell, nurture and guide with unwavering devotion, showing that love transcends bloodlines.

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To My Sons

This open letter to my sons is a heartfelt reflection on the lessons learned throughout motherhood. I apologize for the times I fell short, recognizing the unique paths each of you are on. Dee, Zay, and K, you have filled my life with love and joy, and I now see the importance of nurturing your individuality. I’ve learned that the best way to guide you is with love, respect, and understanding, and I promise to be more present as your mother. I’m proud of the young men you’ve become and will continue to support you in every step of your journey.

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Children Have Voices Too

In a world where children’s voices are often overlooked, it’s crucial to recognize the power of listening to them. This post reflects on the importance of allowing children to express their thoughts and feelings, emphasizing that their perspectives matter. From teaching respect to encouraging open communication, we can help children develop into confident individuals who are aware of the world around them. By engaging with their emotions and understanding their viewpoints, we can create a nurturing environment that empowers the next generation.

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When Loving You Is Wrong

In this post, the author reflects on the significance of self-love and the importance of overcoming self-hate. They explore how past experiences, emotional struggles, and toxic relationships can hinder personal growth and prevent individuals from truly loving themselves. While acknowledging the challenges of life, the post encourages readers to prioritize self-care without neglecting love and respect for others. It also touches on the idea that it’s not selfish to focus on self-love but necessary for mental well-being and healing.

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Relationships

In this post, the author reflects on the importance of self-healing before seeking love in relationships. Emphasizing that happiness is an individual responsibility, the piece explores how unresolved past hurts can affect future relationships. It encourages healing emotional wounds, seeking professional support if needed, and understanding that healthy love begins with self-love. The post also discusses the idea of finding someone who complements, rather than completes, you. Ultimately, it calls for taking time to heal, date yourself, and ensure you’re emotionally prepared for a lasting, fulfilling relationship.

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