Self-doubt has been a constant companion in my life, rooted in childhood experiences where my feelings went unheard. It wasn’t until I began to look inward and reflect on my past that I discovered the source of my doubt: I had learned to ignore my intuition. Through self-discovery, I realized that trusting myself is essential for growth. Life’s challenges are opportunities to strengthen our confidence and patience—no matter how cliché it may sound, we truly can overcome self-doubt.

As DiscoverMe month comes to an end, I reflect on the revelations I’ve had about myself and the challenges in my life. From recognizing the need to show more gratitude to confronting the rising costs of living, particularly in housing, I’ve learned that even in difficult times, there is room for appreciation. Despite the increase in rent, utilities, and groceries, I’m committed to becoming a homeowner and not letting the fear of inflation control my future. This journey has reminded me that gratitude and a focused mindset are key to overcoming life’s hurdles.

In 2011, I found myself in a dark place, lost and overwhelmed by chaos. I decided to take control and rediscover who I was, starting with 30 days of self-reflection. This journey became an annual tradition I call “DiscoverMe Month,” where I evaluate my growth, set new goals, and embrace both the painful and rewarding aspects of self-improvement. Though it’s a difficult process, it’s been key to my mental self-care, helping me confront my past, heal, and move forward with purpose. If you’re feeling stuck, my advice is simple: do the work to rediscover yourself and embrace the transformation.