Why do people start arguments? It’s a curious behavior, especially for someone like me who avoids confrontation and finds it a waste of time. Recently, I listened to a caller on The Bert Show who admitted to starting fights with her husband to avoid going out with him. Her reason? She was ready to act single while still married. This left me baffled and laughing, but it also raised a deeper question about respect and honesty in relationships. If you’re unhappy, end the relationship respectfully—don’t create drama or pretend to be single. Temporary distractions can cost more than they’re worth.

In this post, the author reflects on the complexities of marriage and divorce, acknowledging how external opinions can complicate an already difficult decision. Drawing from personal experiences, the author emphasizes the importance of understanding that every relationship is unique and that external pressures should not dictate personal choices. The piece encourages readers to trust their own judgment, make decisions that align with their well-being, and accept the reality of change in relationships, whether it leads to growth or the end of a chapter.

In this post, the author reflects on the importance of self-healing before seeking love in relationships. Emphasizing that happiness is an individual responsibility, the piece explores how unresolved past hurts can affect future relationships. It encourages healing emotional wounds, seeking professional support if needed, and understanding that healthy love begins with self-love. The post also discusses the idea of finding someone who complements, rather than completes, you. Ultimately, it calls for taking time to heal, date yourself, and ensure you’re emotionally prepared for a lasting, fulfilling relationship.