In this reflective post, I share my journey through the unexpected loss of my Georgia mama and the lessons I’ve learned about patience and resilience. Despite the challenges, including balancing family life and navigating a turbulent world, I’ve come to realize that life doesn’t follow a clear roadmap. We all experience moments of uncertainty, but by embracing individuality and practicing patience, we can find peace and growth. I also share my thoughts on the pandemic, personal choices, and the complexities of leadership during uncertain times.

Adulting is tough, especially with the rising costs of living. From higher rent and utility bills to the increasing price of everyday items like avocados, inflation is making life feel more burdensome. In this post, I reflect on the struggles of managing expenses while staying positive and adaptable in the face of uncertainty. Despite the challenges, I share how to keep a hopeful mindset and focus on creating the life you want, even as prices continue to rise.

In this heartfelt tribute, I remember Ms. Carrie Wynn-Jacobs, my Georgia mother, who became a guiding light in my life. From her warmth and wisdom to the unconditional love she gave me and my children, Ms. Carrie played a pivotal role in my journey as a young mother. She shared her life stories, gave advice, and filled my heart with lessons on strength and womanhood. Though we’ve lost touch over the years, her memory lives on, and I’ll always cherish the bond we shared. Her passing leaves a deep void, but her beautiful soul continues to inspire me every day.

As DiscoverMe month comes to an end, I reflect on the revelations I’ve had about myself and the challenges in my life. From recognizing the need to show more gratitude to confronting the rising costs of living, particularly in housing, I’ve learned that even in difficult times, there is room for appreciation. Despite the increase in rent, utilities, and groceries, I’m committed to becoming a homeowner and not letting the fear of inflation control my future. This journey has reminded me that gratitude and a focused mindset are key to overcoming life’s hurdles.

As a Black woman with big dreams and bougie taste, I’ve often felt stuck, unable to move past invisible boundaries. I’ve watched others overcome their stagnation with the help of loved ones, but for me, motherhood and lack of focus have kept me in a constant state of frustration. Despite the challenges, I’ve realized that I don’t have to choose between being a mother and chasing my dreams. It’s about taking baby steps and finding balance. My advice: if you feel stuck, hit pause, reassess, and find new ways to push past the plateau. Don’t let life’s hurdles dim your light.

In 2011, I found myself in a dark place, lost and overwhelmed by chaos. I decided to take control and rediscover who I was, starting with 30 days of self-reflection. This journey became an annual tradition I call “DiscoverMe Month,” where I evaluate my growth, set new goals, and embrace both the painful and rewarding aspects of self-improvement. Though it’s a difficult process, it’s been key to my mental self-care, helping me confront my past, heal, and move forward with purpose. If you’re feeling stuck, my advice is simple: do the work to rediscover yourself and embrace the transformation.

After months of being consumed by someone else’s mood swings, I realized I had neglected my own well-being. In an effort to regain balance, I decided to turn my attention back to myself during my DiscoverMe month. This period of reflection allowed me to refocus on personal growth, family, and my aspirations as a blogger and entrepreneur. In this post, I share how I’ve learned to set boundaries, embrace my flaws, and prioritize my own journey toward self-improvement.

In this heartfelt tribute, I celebrate the unsung superwomen who play pivotal roles in children’s lives, offering love and care that goes beyond biological ties. My great-grandmother, Ora Bell Kelley, exemplified this selfless love, raising me as her own and sharing her wisdom. Though I later learned she wasn’t my biological mother, our bond remained unshaken. This post honors the women who, like Ora Bell, nurture and guide with unwavering devotion, showing that love transcends bloodlines.

In this insightful post by 12-year-old Sasha, she explores the concept of maturity and intelligence from a young person’s perspective. Reflecting on her own growth, she talks about the balance between staying a kid and maturing quickly. Sasha also addresses how today’s generation is often underestimated for their intelligence and how being smart can sometimes surprise adults. She encourages other young people to embrace their intellect confidently, while being respectful and understanding toward others.

In the wake of the Derek Chauvin trial, while some may find comfort in the verdict, the author reflects on the chaos that often precedes meaningful change. Acknowledging the challenges within law enforcement, they express a desire for police reform that ensures safety for all, especially communities of color. The post explores the emotional weight of witnessing injustice and the hope that the Chauvin case will spark lasting change, urging for better policies, mental health assessments for officers, and a safer, more just environment for everyone.

When two friends are in conflict, it can be difficult to know where to stand. In this post, the author shares a personal story about being caught in the middle of a dispute and the importance of staying neutral. The key takeaway: sometimes, the best thing you can do is listen without choosing sides, avoiding unnecessary drama and protecting your own peace.

After struggling with hypertension and side effects from medication, I decided to take matters into my own hands and try the DASH diet. In this post, I share my personal journey, detailing the dietary changes I made, my health improvements after just one day, and the positive impact it has had on my blood pressure. With a focus on better nutrition and lifestyle, I’m hopeful for continued progress and more improvements at my next doctor’s visit. If you’re dealing with hypertension, this might offer some helpful insights on managing your health.

After being diagnosed with postpartum hypertension, I share my journey of coping with high blood pressure after childbirth. Despite feeling fine initially, my visit to the doctor revealed concerning numbers that led to an emergency room visit. I was diagnosed with postpartum preeclampsia, a condition affecting many new mothers. Through this experience, I learned the importance of rest, self-care, and not rushing back to routine. To other new moms, I encourage you to listen to your body, rest, and prioritize your health, as it’s essential for both you and your baby’s well-being.

At 41, I found myself unexpectedly pregnant with baby number seven during the pandemic. Though I had planned to travel once my last child turned 18, life had other plans. Navigating pregnancy brain, preeclampsia, and the demands of motherhood while managing virtual school for my kids was overwhelming. Yet, giving birth to a healthy baby boy in February 2021 brought immense joy. Now, as I adjust to life as a new mom again, I reflect on the challenges of a “geriatric pregnancy” and offer advice to other moms in similar situations: embrace the journey, reduce stress, and don’t forget to take care of yourself.

This open letter to my sons is a heartfelt reflection on the lessons learned throughout motherhood. I apologize for the times I fell short, recognizing the unique paths each of you are on. Dee, Zay, and K, you have filled my life with love and joy, and I now see the importance of nurturing your individuality. I’ve learned that the best way to guide you is with love, respect, and understanding, and I promise to be more present as your mother. I’m proud of the young men you’ve become and will continue to support you in every step of your journey.

Parenting a 4-year-old is a daily mix of challenges and joys. A’Lia, the youngest of six children, brings out a whirlwind of emotions with her energy and cuteness. Whether she’s trying to mimic her older siblings or throwing a tantrum when things don’t go her way, she keeps her mom on her toes. Despite the challenges, the love and laughter she brings make it all worth it. This post reflects on the ups and downs of raising a spirited toddler and the unique parenting strategies that come with it.

In this heartfelt post, the author reflects on the struggles of navigating uncertainty—whether it’s dealing with financial setbacks, the challenges of pursuing homeownership, or the lingering effects of the pandemic. From past mistakes to the weight of anxiety and depression, the writer shares personal experiences of overcoming adversity and the importance of maintaining hope for the future. With a focus on resilience, family, and the determination to build a better tomorrow, the message encourages readers to keep dreaming and working toward their goals, despite the challenges life throws their way.

In this brief but heartfelt post, the author expresses sincere gratitude to their readers and the brave individuals who volunteered for the vaccine trials. Acknowledging the support from followers across social media and thanking those who took risks for the greater good, the message is a reminder of the importance of community and selflessness. The author looks forward to engaging with their audience more in the future and offers a special thank you to those who made a significant impact.

Loyalty is a valuable trait, but when it’s not reciprocated, it can turn into a form of stupidity. In relationships, whether with friends, family, or significant others, we often remain loyal despite repeated disloyalty from others. This post explores the dangers of blind loyalty, sharing a personal experience of betrayal and the lessons learned from it. It encourages readers to evaluate their relationships, set healthy boundaries, and recognize when loyalty is no longer being honored, ultimately protecting themselves from unnecessary hurt and disappointment.

In this post, I share my personal experience voting early in the 2020 elections, overcoming fears and long lines to make my voice heard. With anticipation and reflection, I highlight the importance of voting for change and encourage everyone to get involved in shaping the future, regardless of political views. Your vote matters, now more than ever.