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Love & Marriage: DC “Monique in the Middle”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1 Episode 7, Monique takes a significant step in her career, launching her radio hosting job while Chris dives deeper into his role as a hands-on father. Meanwhile, Ashley surprises viewers as she works on a self-help book, a project that feels unexpected given her on-screen persona. Tensions flare when Monique inadvertently fuels the fire between Ashley and Winter by revealing a nickname Winter had for Ashley’s husband, Jamie. As Winter faces backlash from Erana for discussing private information, the group’s dynamics begin to shift, setting the stage for more drama to come.

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Love & Marriage: DC “Emotional Overload”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 6, the ongoing feud between Winter and Ashley takes center stage, with Monique’s involvement only fueling the fire. Despite Monique’s attempt to apologize and take responsibility, Winter remains guarded, and Ashley is reluctant to make peace. Meanwhile, Jamie and Erana’s relationship continues to seem somewhat inauthentic, leaving fans questioning their true dynamics. Monique and Chris’s relationship also faces its challenges as Monique promises to stay out of the drama but struggles to balance her role. This episode offers a glimpse into the complexities of these couples, showcasing the drama and growth on the path to resolution.

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Love & Marriage: DC “Did I Do That?”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 5, the couples are faced with some tough but eye-opening moments. Erana and Jamie discuss their son Jayson’s desire for independence and his decision to pursue a path outside of what his parents envisioned for him. Meanwhile, Monique and Chris’s relationship hits a bump when Monique learns that Chris hasn’t started their therapist-assigned work, leading to frustrations and a tough conversation about their differing ways of processing emotions. Ashley and Quick’s relationship takes center stage too, with Ashley pushing for more time with Quick and their kids. As the couples face both personal and family challenges, the episode highlights the importance of communication, understanding, and compromise in relationships.

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Love & Marriage: DC “Sex, Lies, and the Great Debate”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 4, Monique’s attempt to mediate the tension between Ashley and Winter backfires, creating an even bigger rift between the two women. Meanwhile, Jamie and Erana’s son, Jayson, makes it clear that he wants to carve his own path in life, leading to a tense family dinner where Jamie struggles with his son’s independence. As the couples continue to navigate their personal and professional challenges, underlying tensions between Jamie and Erana surface, hinting at deeper issues. Monique’s growing complexity adds intrigue to the drama, leaving fans eager to see how the story unfolds in the next episode.

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Love & Marriage: DC “No New Friends”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 3, the ongoing tension between Winter and Ashley takes center stage as the ladies try to navigate their strained interactions. After a heated dinner discussion, Erana and Jamie find themselves discussing the delicate issue of infidelity, with Jamie expressing frustration over Erana’s response. Meanwhile, Monique and Chris prepare for their upcoming trip to Africa, while Winter tries to mend her relationship with the group, though Ashley’s cold demeanor complicates things. As the drama continues, it’s clear that unresolved tensions are shaping the dynamics between these women.

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Love & Marriage: DC “Coldest Winter Ever”

In Love and Marriage: DC Season 1, Episode 2, tensions continue to rise as Monique opens up to Ashley about the growing strain in her marriage with Chris. The conversation shifts to a deeper discussion about relationship dynamics, with Monique addressing the “seven-year itch” and revealing her concerns. Meanwhile, Chris meets with Winter’s soon-to-be ex-husband, Kevin, shedding light on their troubled past. As the dinner party unfolds, secrets and opinions clash, particularly between Winter and Ashley, leading to a dramatic exchange. Will the relationships survive the pressure, or will the drama intensify?

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Love & Marriage: DC “Welcome To Chocolate City”

In the premiere of Love & Marriage: DC, we meet the powerhouse couples of DC: Jamie and Erana Tyler, DJ Quick Silva and Ashley, and Chris and Monique Samuels. As they navigate the highs and lows of love, marriage, and balancing career with family, the women come out strong with their personalities, while the men reveal their ambition and dedication. The episode highlights the beauty of black love and accomplishment, offering a refreshing and authentic portrayal of the challenges these couples face. It’s an engaging start to a reality series that showcases real relationships, entrepreneurship, and the complexities of family life.

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Truth Hurts

After a difficult journey filled with self-doubt and fear, I share my personal experience with divorce and the emotional rollercoaster it brought. From walking on eggshells in a troubled marriage to questioning my worth, I finally found the courage to let go and embrace the truth. In this post, I reflect on the process of healing, letting go of societal expectations, and preparing for a month of detox and self-reflection. I also discuss my plans to dive into new creative pursuits, including blogging about the Love & Marriage: DC series. This is a raw, honest look at overcoming challenges and rediscovering oneself.

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Family History Mystery

After years of mourning my great-grandmother’s death, I embarked on a journey to research my family history. What started as an effort to heal became a fascinating exploration into the lives of my ancestors. From discovering handwritten family records in my aunt’s Bible to using DNA testing to uncover over 800 relatives, the journey has been both time-consuming and rewarding. Now, I’m faced with a mystery I can’t let go: my second great-grandmother’s connection to an enslaver’s family and the intriguing Irish origins I’ve uncovered in my DNA. Join me as I continue piecing together the past and uncover the stories that shaped my family.

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Supervised Emancipation

On Mother’s Day, my daughter’s questions about motherhood led me to reflect on my parenting style, which I’ve coined “supervised emancipation.” I focus on teaching my children essential life skills at their developmental pace, from chores to finances, while also encouraging them to express their feelings and understand their rights. My goal is to create a strong, unique bond with them, guiding them to live beyond me and become the best versions of themselves. Parenting isn’t just about teaching rules—it’s about helping children discover their passions and preparing them for life beyond childhood.

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Double Standards: Black Edition

The January 6 insurrection highlighted the deep divides and contradictions within our society. In reflecting on this event, I explore the influence of double standards in our government, the consequences of misinformation, and the importance of understanding our rights. Despite the chaos, I urge us to learn from these lessons—know the rules, understand the facts, and approach situations with caution. By doing so, we can move toward healing and break free from the traps of division and injustice that have been set in place.

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It’s Not Easy…

Balancing parenting, personal goals, and the need for additional income can feel overwhelming, especially when life constantly pulls you in different directions. In this post, I reflect on the challenge of finding time for myself amid daily responsibilities. Despite completing blogs and other tasks, I often struggle to turn them in due to distractions. Yet, I’m motivated by the reality of inflation and uncertainty, pushing me to seek new ways to create revenue streams. With a change in mindset, I’m determined to overcome these challenges and keep moving forward, knowing things will get better in due time.

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Silence

Sometimes, silence is the answer to finding balance in life. In this post, I reflect on the importance of quieting the noise around me to address unresolved issues and protect my mental health. By confronting these lingering problems, I aim to create peace and harmony, reducing the stress that drains me. While not all challenges can be resolved, I focus on what I can fix to create a brighter, simpler future for myself.

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No New Year’s Resolution

In 2022, I decided to forgo the typical New Year’s resolutions and focus on one thing: completion. I realized I had a pattern of starting projects and leaving them unfinished, so this year is all about crossing things off my list. From learning how to do a full face of makeup to relaunching my apparel shop, Life’s Small Print, and even reducing my sodium intake, I’m dedicated to wrapping up tasks I’ve put off for too long. Join me on this journey of personal growth and goal completion as I embrace the challenges and successes of this year.

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Unfinished Moments

In this reflective post, I explore the patterns in my relationships and why I tend to attract the wrong type of people. Looking back, I realized my struggles with people-pleasing and allowing myself to be mistreated stemmed from unfinished moments from my childhood. Growing up with my father, I always sought guidance and validation from him, but when he was incarcerated, I felt abandoned and left to navigate life alone. This feeling of unfinished business translated into my adult relationships, where I continuously tried to fix things with people who weren’t willing to change. Through this self-reflection, I’ve learned to own my choices, set boundaries, and pave my own path toward healthier relationships.

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Always Starting Problems

Why do people start arguments? It’s a curious behavior, especially for someone like me who avoids confrontation and finds it a waste of time. Recently, I listened to a caller on The Bert Show who admitted to starting fights with her husband to avoid going out with him. Her reason? She was ready to act single while still married. This left me baffled and laughing, but it also raised a deeper question about respect and honesty in relationships. If you’re unhappy, end the relationship respectfully—don’t create drama or pretend to be single. Temporary distractions can cost more than they’re worth.

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Christmas Movies with Janetta, Part 2

Here’s a selection of holiday movies that will bring festive cheer to your screen. From family dramas like The Business of Christmas and its sequel to feel-good romances like Someday at Christmas, this list has something for everyone. Highlights include the laugh-out-loud Soul Santa, the heartwarming A Jenkins Family Christmas, and the musically vibrant Miracles Across 125th Street. Whether you’re in the mood for holiday magic, romance, or laughs, these films streaming on BET, VH1, and TV One will make your season brighter. Happy Holidays!

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Christmas Movies with Janetta Part 1

For years, I avoided Christmas movies, but my sister’s excitement finally convinced me to give them a try in 2020—and I’m so glad I did! From the dramedy The Christmas Lottery to the heartwarming Throwback Holiday, and the delightful Chandler family series (Marry Me for Christmas, Marry Us for Christmas, and more), my holiday movie journey is packed with laughs, love, and festive charm. Dive into my list and discover your next holiday favorite!

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Pride Is Debilitating

Pride can be both a strength and a stumbling block. In my journey, I’ve realized that my fierce independence often kept me from seeking help, even when I truly needed it. Rooted in past experiences, this self-reliance became a shield that hindered my growth. Through reflection, I’ve learned that asking for support isn’t weakness—it’s a step toward strength. This post explores the impact of pride on relationships, the lessons I’ve learned, and how embracing vulnerability has started to transform my path.

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No Such Thing

Pride can be both a shield and a stumbling block. Reflecting on my journey, I’ve realized how excessive independence kept me from seeking help and fully embracing opportunities. While I valued self-reliance, it often came at the cost of personal growth and meaningful connections. Breaking free from the grip of pride has shown me the importance of vulnerability and the strength in accepting support.

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